Protecting Our Loved Ones: How to Recognize the Signs of Nursing Home and Assisted Living Abuse
- Mitchell Lansky
- Jun 12
- 3 min read
When a loved one moves into a nursing home or assisted living facility, we expect them to receive compassionate, respectful, and professional care. While many facilities provide high-quality services, elder abuse remains a deeply concerning and far too common issue—one that is often unseen or unreported.
According to the World Health Organization, nearly 50% of long-term care staff surveyed in 2023 admitted to engaging in abusive or neglectful behavior. That statistic only captures self-reported cases—many more go unnoticed, especially when residents are unable to advocate for themselves.
At The Lansky Law Firm, we believe protecting your loved ones means being informed, proactive, and supported every step of the way. This guide outlines key risk factors, warning signs, and steps to take if you suspect nursing home or assisted living abuse.
What Increases the Risk of Elder Abuse?
Several systemic challenges can increase the likelihood of abuse or neglect in care facilities:
Understaffing and Inadequate Training
When caregivers are overworked or poorly trained, they may struggle to meet residents' needs, which can lead to serious consequences—sometimes even abuse.
Vulnerable Populations
Women, people of color, LGBTQ+ individuals, and those with mental or cognitive impairments are at higher risk. Veterans and those with trauma-related conditions may also be more vulnerable due to communication challenges.
Cognitive and Physical Impairments
Elders with dementia, Alzheimer’s, or physical limitations may be unable to recognize or report abuse. Their silence makes it all the more important for families to stay alert to changes in behavior or appearance.
Types of Elder Abuse & Common Warning Signs
Physical Abuse
The use of physical force resulting in injury or discomfort. Warning signs include:
Bruises, cuts, or broken bones
Flinching when approached
Refusing to be touched
Unexplained injuries
Sexual Abuse
Any non-consensual sexual contact or behavior. Look for:
Bruising in private areas
Sudden fearfulness or withdrawal
Avoidance of specific staff members
Unexplained infections or bleeding
Emotional or Psychological Abuse
Verbal abuse, threats, humiliation, or intentional isolation. Red flags:
Depression, anxiety, or sudden mood changes
Withdrawal from social interactions
Hesitation to speak around staff
Unusual silence or sadness
Neglect
Failure to meet essential needs like hygiene, nutrition, or medical care. Possible indicators:
Poor hygiene or dirty clothing
Bedsores, infections, or untreated medical issues
Signs of malnutrition or dehydration
Unclean or unsafe living conditions
What to Do If You Suspect Abuse
Observe and Document Regularly visit and observe your loved one. Keep written notes and photos of anything concerning.
Speak to Facility Staff Report concerns to the nursing supervisor, social worker, or administrator. Ask for a written report and a timeline for resolution.
Report It If the concern persists or there's immediate danger, contact your local Adult Protective Services (APS) or the Long-Term Care Ombudsman Program.
Consult Legal Counsel If your loved one has suffered harm, legal action may be warranted. An experienced elder law attorney can help you protect your loved one’s rights and pursue justice.
Resources for Families
Eldercare Locator: 1-800-677-1116
National Center on Elder Abuse: ncea.acl.gov
Consumer Voice for Quality Long-Term Care: theconsumervoice.org
State Ombudsman Program: consumervoice.org/get_help
Final Thoughts
No one should suffer in silence—especially in a place that promises safety and care. If something feels wrong, trust your instincts. Ask questions, raise your concerns, and take action.
At The Lansky Law Firm, we’re here to guide you through the legal process with compassion, clarity, and a steadfast commitment to protecting what matters most.
Visit Us: 6800 Poplar Ave #225, Memphis, TN 38138 Call Us: (901) 767-7006 Learn More: www.lanskylawfirm.com
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